- 366: How to Move From Victim to Victor
- https://coachingforleaders.com/podcast/366/
- https://coachingforleaders.com/?download_id=c3ff5a5fadc354680a0ed65ac1f29949
| Context | Victim | Victor |
|---|---|---|
| After complaining & moaning | Feeling angry, disempowered | Feeling excited, empowered |
| Compete for Attention, Acceptance and Approval | Listen and give Attention, Acceptance and Approval | |
| Blame others | Take responsibility | |
| Try to prove | Try to improve | |
| Example: See someone driving a better car | Can't wait to get into one, how can I get one, how to learn from the driver | |
- Self-acceptance starts with acknowledging that you cannot be perfect in everything, but you can be perfect in your own way.
- You have your good and bad bits, your positives and negatives, and you need to accept and embrace them for what they are to achieve your maximum power.
| Type | Victim | Victor |
|---|---|---|
| Martyr victim | the victim who feels sorry for themselves | |
| Arrogant inferior victim | the person who cuts others down so he or she can feel better about themself | |
| Arrogant superior victim | the person who thinks all problems are below them, that everybody else is a fool who can't do anything right |