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{
"axes": [
{
"label": "Openness",
"positive": "Curious, tolerant, exploratory; grants nuance or ambiguity",
"negative": "Tribal, judgmental, dismissive; asserts fixed moral stance"
},
{
"label": "Moral Attribution",
"positive": "Assigns blame or virtue explicitly; moralizes about character or gender",
"negative": "Non-moral, procedural, detached; sees misunderstanding or social dynamics instead of moral fault"
},
{
"label": "Textual Essentialism",
"positive": "Believes texting style or micro-behavior reveals essential personality truths",
"negative": "Views texting as surface-level, contextual, or inconsequential"
},
{
"label": "Gender Dynamics",
"positive": "Sympathetic to female position or critiques male behavior",
"negative": "Sympathetic to male position or critiques female behavior"
},
{
"label": "Socio-Cultural Framing",
"positive": "Interprets situation through social, cultural, or systemic lenses (dating norms, society, technology)",
"negative": "Interprets situation through individual psychology or personality quirks"
},
{
"label": "Tone / Affect",
"positive": "Playful, ironic, humorous, memetic",
"negative": "Serious, analytical, earnest, moralizing"
}
],
"data": [
{
"id": "T0",
"author": "Critter (@BecomingCritter)",
"emoji": "🌀",
"text": "who’s in the wrong here?",
"estimation": "Open-ended provocation inviting moral triangulation and projection.",
"coords": [90, 0, 0, 0, 0, 10],
"replies_to": null
},
{
"id": "T1",
"author": "Joshua 💫 (@workflowsauce)",
"emoji": "🤝",
"text": "Nobody. It’s fine for people to be sloppy and fine for people to be choosy. Move on and try again, both.",
"estimation": "Balances empathy and pragmatism; open and nonjudgmental framing.",
"coords": [95, -60, -40, 0, 20, -10],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T2",
"author": "Rat King Crimson (@Alphiloscorp)",
"emoji": "🧐",
"text": "Him. An excited fumble, perhaps. ... tonal shift between text 1 and text 2 is jarring... I would feel a bit deceived, but as a man I would probably let it slide.",
"estimation": "Detailed semi-empathic critique; mild textual essentialism and aesthetic judgment.",
"coords": [40, 30, 60, 10, -30, -40],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T3",
"author": "spor (@sporadicalia)",
"emoji": "🧠",
"text": "We need to admit that the way people text shows who they are. The woman is in the right, here.",
"estimation": "Moral certainty and essentialism; firmly locates meaning in textual behavior.",
"coords": [-50, 90, 95, 70, -30, -60],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T4",
"author": "Ra (@slimepriestess)",
"emoji": "💬",
"text": "He’s in the wrong by going too meta. Just treat chats as asynchronous; drawing attention to timing is cringe.",
"estimation": "Cultural rule enforcement; high confidence in social norm knowledge.",
"coords": [-20, 70, 40, 50, 10, -30],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T5",
"author": "🌷🐰 sonya serendipitously 🐇🎀 (@sonyasupposedly)",
"emoji": "😐",
"text": "Based solely on this text exchange, I do not find either of them appealing.",
"estimation": "Detached aesthetic dismissal; emotionally cool and somewhat judgmental.",
"coords": [-40, 40, 50, 0, -40, -10],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T6",
"author": "Natalie (@gaptoothdummy)",
"emoji": "🫶",
"text": "Could be both, could be neither... Men are sensitive about texting because women roast them. That's unfair.",
"estimation": "Sympathetic, socially aware, gender-conscious; blends empathy and mild critique.",
"coords": [60, 10, 20, -60, 50, -10],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T7",
"author": "Jack Mars (@newmachines)",
"emoji": "😅",
"text": "Oh, no. We're going to start another debate on text etiquette, aren't we?",
"estimation": "Meta-ironic disengagement; humor as distance from moral stakes.",
"coords": [80, -40, 0, 0, 40, 90],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T8",
"author": "djcows (@djcows)",
"emoji": "🔥",
"text": "-9999 aura for acting like he's the only thing in the world she's got going on from day one",
"estimation": "Hyperbolic, performative condemnation; moralizing through meme-speak.",
"coords": [-60, 95, 70, 60, -50, 70],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T9",
"author": "rip van stinkle (@vt__snowflake)",
"emoji": "🌹",
"text": "If you're engaging a paid matchmaker, you should extend a little grace to potential partners.",
"estimation": "Socioeconomic empathy and soft moral guidance; higher-level contextual framing.",
"coords": [70, 30, 10, 0, 90, -30],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T10",
"author": "J.T. Alexander (@JTAlexander_)",
"emoji": "📏",
"text": "Not necessarily wrong, but I wouldn't date a woman who types like that — de-capitalization and fragments are red flags.",
"estimation": "Judgment couched as preference; strong textual essentialism, low openness.",
"coords": [-60, 60, 95, -40, -20, -50],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T11",
"author": "Dshoopy (@Dshoopy0)",
"emoji": "⚖️",
"text": "She’s too quick to cut things short. The way he’s texting is weird. Both.",
"estimation": "Even-handed but critical; moral symmetry.",
"coords": [50, 20, 40, 0, -10, -30],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T12",
"author": "crumbraven (@crumbraven_)",
"emoji": "🎭",
"text": "All’s fair in love and war.",
"estimation": "Playful nihilism; dismisses moral stakes entirely.",
"coords": [85, -80, 0, 0, -60, 80],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T13",
"author": "Orthodox Princess Peach (@orthodox_peach)",
"emoji": "👸",
"text": "Her. Awkward texts are fine; if you hired a matchmaker, you can’t afford to reject mild awkwardness.",
"estimation": "Harsh realism; pragmatic class/gender framing.",
"coords": [-30, 60, 40, -40, 70, -40],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T14",
"author": "Mark II (@dichromark)",
"emoji": "🌴",
"text": "The guy because he’s from Miami.",
"estimation": "Playful stereotyping; humor via regional shorthand.",
"coords": [85, -10, 0, 30, -20, 100],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T15",
"author": "Hermit (@Hermitual)",
"emoji": "💀",
"text": "They both suck. They’re toxic matched.",
"estimation": "Cynical equivalence; moral flattening via contempt.",
"coords": [-50, 60, 30, 0, -40, -50],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T16",
"author": "Arbutus Tree (@aphercotropist)",
"emoji": "⚪",
"text": "Neither, both.",
"estimation": "Dismissive neutrality; low engagement but avoids blame.",
"coords": [60, -40, -20, 0, -30, -20],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T17",
"author": "Anthz (@Things2Know123)",
"emoji": "📚",
"text": "Bro is doing too much. Young men would benefit from pre-2016 red pill content — there's knowledge there.",
"estimation": "Reactionary didacticism; gendered essentialism masked as advice.",
"coords": [-70, 80, 80, -70, -60, -50],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T18",
"author": "Dr. Van Nostrand (@DoctorNostrand)",
"emoji": "💢",
"text": "He's clearly cringe and weird and gay.",
"estimation": "Hostile insult; total moralization and tribal derision.",
"coords": [-100, 100, 90, 70, -70, 30],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T19",
"author": "thoughtcrime (@thoughtcrime___)",
"emoji": "🟦",
"text": "blue ez",
"estimation": "Tribal shorthand / meme response; ironic simplicity.",
"coords": [40, 10, 20, 60, -40, 95],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T20",
"author": "Emo (@EmilianoLGU)",
"emoji": "🚫",
"text": "THE DUDE HAS NO CONFIDENCE, NO AURA, AND NO RIZZ.",
"estimation": "Hypermasculine aura critique; memetic and moralizing.",
"coords": [-70, 90, 70, 40, -60, 85],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T21",
"author": "Sam Lowen (@samlowen5105)",
"emoji": "🕐",
"text": "As soon as he said '1st text back at 1am' he lost.",
"estimation": "Clear rule-based norm enforcement; confidence and timing are everything.",
"coords": [-40, 60, 50, 30, -20, -10],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T22",
"author": "e/acc magazine (@eaccmagazine)",
"emoji": "🌍",
"text": "I blame society",
"estimation": "Macro abstraction; total social framing, ironic detachment.",
"coords": [70, -20, -10, 0, 100, 90],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T23",
"author": "s̵͖͕͆̀͐̈́̑̚ą̷̧̛͖̠͖̜͙̥͙̥͕͈͊͆͂͐̀̓͑̊͑̀͒͛̆̚͠͠n̸̿̀̒͌̈́̑͘ (@Unknown_Keys)",
"emoji": "🌀",
"text": "neither this is good",
"estimation": "Abstract contrarian approval; ironic flattening of debate.",
"coords": [75, -60, 0, 0, -30, 80],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T24",
"author": "Zach (@whynotqat)",
"emoji": "🫵",
"text": "you",
"estimation": "Playful deflection toward Critter; meta-humor.",
"coords": [80, -30, 0, 0, -40, 95],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T25",
"author": "strangehours (@dugmartsch)",
"emoji": "💸",
"text": "If you’re using a matchmaking service (and paying $$$$$$ for it) don’t horny text right off the bat.",
"estimation": "Pragmatic advice; moralized etiquette through class framing.",
"coords": [50, 40, 30, 30, 60, -20],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T26",
"author": "crown 👑 (@crowndotexe)",
"emoji": "🟦",
"text": "blue",
"estimation": "Minimalist team-signaling meme; tribal shorthand.",
"coords": [20, 10, 10, 60, -50, 95],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T27",
"author": "buried by time and dust (@iron_redux)",
"emoji": "😒",
"text": "You are for reposting this slop.",
"estimation": "Meta-hostility; derision toward discourse itself.",
"coords": [-80, 60, 0, 0, -70, 40],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T28",
"author": "Οὖτις (@driftwoodvitae)",
"emoji": "🫵",
"text": "you",
"estimation": "Direct mockery of the poster; playful but aggressive tone.",
"coords": [30, 10, 0, 0, -40, 90],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T29",
"author": "Anil Das (@dasanil)",
"emoji": "🤷🏾‍♂️",
"text": "“Neither” is an acceptable answer. 🤷🏾‍♂️",
"estimation": "Deflationary neutrality; meta acknowledgment of the binary trap.",
"coords": [80, -50, -20, 0, 10, 20],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T30",
"author": "daniel f (@iamthemightyoak)",
"emoji": "🌳",
"text": "gonna actually say no one",
"estimation": "Dismissive neutrality; curt, detached tone.",
"coords": [70, -40, -10, 0, -20, 30],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T31",
"author": "wil michael (@wilplatypus)",
"emoji": "👁️",
"text": "you can tell without reading any of the words",
"estimation": "Meta-textual irony; playfully denies semantic analysis itself.",
"coords": [75, -50, 60, 0, -30, 90],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T32",
"author": "Tom (@TCAZ1776)",
"emoji": "🕐",
"text": "The woman was upset that he did not reply to her 1AM text.",
"estimation": "Literal explanatory mode; interpretive, not moral.",
"coords": [60, -60, 10, -10, -10, -20],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T33",
"author": "mclovin (@PaulMclo)",
"emoji": "🧩",
"text": "The woman with a dating coach and neuroticism.",
"estimation": "Psychological labeling; gendered critique.",
"coords": [-60, 70, 40, -80, -40, -40],
"replies_to": "T0"
},
{
"id": "T34",
"author": "TheRockawayRecord, MPA, MBA (@RockawayRecord)",
"emoji": "🏢",
"text": "She is to HR speak… 'not a good fit'.",
"estimation": "Professionalized detachment; wry gender-coded dismissal.",
"coords": [-40, 60, 30, -50, 40, 30],
"replies_to": "T0"
}
]
}
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