AWS RDS PostgreSQL Connection Troubleshooting Conversation

Date context: January 31, 2026 (as provided)

Initial User Query

I want to connect to my rds instance using psql I allowed all traffic still mo use

Grok Response 1 (Summary)

• Even with security group allowing all traffic, common blockers are:
  1. Publicly accessible = No
  2. Subnets lack route to Internet Gateway (0.0.0.0/0 → igw-…)
  3. Network ACLs blocking
  4. Local firewall/ISP blocking port 5432
  5. Wrong endpoint/port/credentials
• Diagnostic commands: ping, telnet/Test-NetConnection on port 5432
• Recommended psql example command provided

User Follow-up 1

what if public access is disabled?

Grok Response 2 (Summary)

If Publicly accessible = No:

• Instance has only private IP — no direct public connection possible
• Options:
  1. Temporarily set to Yes (for dev/testing)
  2. Use EC2 bastion + SSH tunnel (most common secure method)
     • Example SSH tunnel: ssh -L 5433:endpoint:5432 ec2-user@ec2-dns
     • Then psql -h localhost -p 5433 ...
  3. AWS SSM Session Manager port forwarding
  4. Client VPN / Site-to-Site VPN
  5. Other: EC2 Instance Connect Endpoint, etc.
• Recommendation: Use bastion/SSH tunnel for secure access without exposing DB

User Follow-up 2

can we disable this ssl connection

Grok Response 3 (Summary)

Yes — controlled by rds.force_ssl parameter (default = 1 / on in PostgreSQL 15+)

Steps to disable:

1. Create/edit custom DB parameter group
2. Set rds.force_ssl = 0
3. Associate with instance → Apply & reboot
4. Connect with PGSSLMODE=disable or sslmode=disable

Warnings:

• Security risk (unencrypted traffic)
• Better to keep enabled + use proper SSL (rds-ca bundle + verify-full)
• Example psql with disable provided

User Follow-up 3

Internet access gateway Disabled is shown on my instance

Grok Response 4 (Summary)

"Internet access gateway: Disabled" means no route to Internet Gateway — subnets are private.

Fix options:

Option 1: Make public (for testing)

1. Attach IGW to VPC (if missing)
2. Add 0.0.0.0/0 → igw- route to subnet route table(s)
3. Enable auto-assign public IP on subnets (optional)
4. Ensure Public access = Yes on RDS
5. Wait → status should change to Enabled

Security: Restrict SG to your IP only

Option 2: Keep private (recommended for prod)

• Launch EC2 bastion in public subnet
• Allow 5432 from EC2 SG to RDS SG
• Use SSH tunnel (example commands repeated)
• Keeps "Internet access gateway: Disabled" — which is secure

Recommendation: Add the IGW route if you want quick public access; otherwise use bastion.